My Man!!

I want a man who understands himself, more than he understands me. He who is aware of his shortcomings and accepts them as well. I can not change the man I marry, but anyone can change if they want to. I need a man who helps me find the courage to change the things I can. I just don't want to grow old with the man I love, I want to evolve with him. I want a man who understands that I am sensible and responsible enough to take care of myself, my husband and our family and does not doubt it even once. Someone who will understand that loving people needs energy, and it always helps if your better half becomes an equal part of it. I need someone who does not expect me to make efforts to look good for him, but compliments me when I do, so that it makes me happy to do so for him. I need someone who understands that like him, even I am not ready for marriage and all the things that come with it, and hence even I can go wrong or hurt him or someone close to him, but he must trust that it is unintentional, and give me a fair chance to make up for my mistakes. I want someone who fights over little issues, but does not let these little things come in the way of our love or care for each other. I know despite all things being good, there can be a ' what if' and I would be happy if my man had these doubts… because then I would find a reason to make efforts and let him realize that out of all the love stories he could have been a part of, this one would have been the most heartfelt.